Encopresis is a common childhood problem. Often, parents are embarrassed to talk about encopresis so that it is difficult to determine the prevalence. Many families feel alone in suffering with this condition and express relief when they discover support groups and chat groups on various parenting and social media sites. Parents often question why this problem is so common and what causes the withholding that leads to encopresis. There are various explanations.
Birth of a Sibling
After the birth of a sibling, older children often revert to more infantile behavior, to a pre toilet training stage, with the child demanding pull-ups for defecation rather than using the toilet. By exhibiting this type of behavior, the child is able to receive attention and control his/her parents.
Aversion to Pooping
A child may develop an aversion to having bowel movements. This aversion can occur at any time due to previous pain or discomfort during or after defecation. A painful bowel movement may have been due to a hard, constipated stool. Some babies have hard bowel movements at 6–7 months of age and can very quickly move onto stool withholding by one year of age. Although the problem was initially physical in nature, the problem then becomes behavioral.
Toilet Refusal
Some children refuse to have a bowel movement in the toilet and and demand a pull-up or diaper for bowel movements. I refer to this behavior as ‘pull-up dependency’. Avoidance of the toilet is a habit that can be challenging to break. Rewards, gifts and other inducements do not generally help children overcome this avoidance behavior.
Disposable Training Pants
Kimberly–Clark invented Pull-Ups® in 1989 as a disposable training pant. Although disposable training pants are marketed as an aid to toilet training, they may actually delay toilet training. I equate this to a child wearing a portable toilet. Disposable training pants are available for children weighing up to 50 pounds, permitting older children to refuse to toilet train.
Pooping in Public Places
It is common for children to withhold if they have to use bathrooms that offer limited privacy. Children often withhold during school hours because of an unwillingness to utilize school bathrooms. Withholding during school is seen in children of all ages from early childhood through adolescence.
Stress
Any stress such as a household move, change of school, marital discord, social stresses, etc, can set the stage for withholding and encopresis. The withholding behavior becomes a way for a child to maintain control at a time when that child is particularly stressed or feeling out of control.
Other Causes
Children who have emotional or behavioral issues, especially oppositional, defiant disorders can have trouble with fecal soiling.
Children who have been withholding for a long time may lose the sensation or normal urge to go to the bathroom. This loss of sensation perpetuates the withholding behavior.
Regardless of the cause of withholding and encopresis, effective treatment can be achieved to manage this condition. A carefully administered bowel management program of oral laxatives and behavioral strategies can be implemented to re-program a child to poop on the toilet.